How we introduced Monty and Molly to each other!

A lot of people have been asking how we introduced Monty and Molly to each other, how they became friends so fast and if we used a special method.

The short answer is yes! We used a special method when we introduced them to each other because we wanted to make it right the first time. We wanted to do everything we could so we would increase the chances on them getting friends and not enemies because making two cats become friends after them having a bad first meeting, can definitely be a challenge!

After hours of searching all over the internet on “the best way to introduce two cats to each other”, reading articles from vets and watching youtube videos, we found that the best way for Monty and Molly would probably be the method Jackson Galaxy is using and teaching. Find the article and video with him here!

Watch the video of me trying my best to explain how we did it. I will say that this is my first “how to” video and after editing it, I realised that I talk A LOT and not always in correct English! 😉 So bear with me okay..

 

 

In short steps of what we did:

  1. Made Molly her own room with everything she needed.
  2. After a few weeks when she was flee free and also had gotten used to her new room, we made a “safe wall” between her room and the hallway where Monty had access to.
  3. We placed Monty in another room while we sat up the fenced barrier between Monty and Molly and placed a blanket on the fence, so they couldn’t see each other at all.
  4. Then we fet them their favorite food on each side of the blanket.
    They could hear and smell each other but they couldn’t see each other. This step is really important to maintain at least 3 days or until the cats doesn’t care anymore about the sounds on the other side.
  5. After 3 days of feeding them on each side of the blanket twice a day, we started to lift the blanket a tiny bit.
    They could now see a little bit of each other, while having their favorite food.
  6. We continued this method around 14 days where we lifted the blanket a little more every other day. (Important to note that if you do this and one of your cats starts to show sings of aggression, you need to take a step back. Put the blanket all the way down if you need to. You have to have patience.)
  7. Then we scent swapped by placing Molly in the bathroom.
    A good idea is to take a small space at a time so the cat don’t get overwhelmed and scared.
  8. While Molly was in the bathroom we let the door to her room be open so Monty could go in if he wanted to by himself. (Do not force your cat.)
  9. They both did so well that we continued the scent swapping and feeding on each side of the blanket a few more weeks until we finally let Molly out of her room to explore on her own while Monty was being pampered and brushed in the sofa. When he saw her walking on the floor he emidiatly knew who it was because we had been taking it so slow and he didn’t even seem to care, but instead stayed on Michael’s lap.
  10. Molly had access to the entire house supervised a few hours every, until we felt safe enough to let them be together without us watching them.

Here are the links to the products we used: Feliway diffusor, Bach Flower Remedies and Zylkene.

We hope that you found this helpful and interesting. Please tell us in the comments what you would like to see next!

 

4 thoughts on “How we introduced Monty and Molly to each other!

  1. Humm…glad it was a success. I just let my cat and my grandsons have freedom of the house (they each had their own rooms with their cat trees, toys,etc). Ofter a couple days they were comfortable around each other. But must add both of them had moved so the house was new. I think the situation is important as it was new territory to them both.

  2. Thanks! You did a great job with Monty and Molly. Now I can see why my two tolerate each other but never became friends as I just brought a new cat in and didn’t prepare my first cat beforehand. Well now I know what to do if I need to introduce two cats again! ❤️

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